I sh*t my pants right on the rock wall of one of those rock climbing gyms. I think it must be uncomfortable and I don't think it's a smart choice, but if you wants to poop in your pants, I guess that's your choice." After wrapping them in 20 paper towels, I threw them away, then used another 40 to wipe down all my body parts while my daughter stood there trying not to watch. I'm sure you'll find a I found the cleaning up process highly embarrassing when I finally had to pull my dirty pants down so I was quite happy it being put off till bedtime and being left to my own devices in the meantime. poo. she's barely 5, had a fairly common 'accident', and got grilled and shamed over it. I know it's really hard to do that, but if you make a big deal about it you are giving her the negative attention she craves. Trying to stop wasnt working at all but hiding it did and that made me feel better about myself. I am fairly sure nothing like that existed at my school and if there was, I didnt know about it. They were both instigated by my mother, so it seemed like she didnt want to deal with the situation. carried on playing. I was playing alone in !" Julia went up stairs, followed by her mom. Share the best GIFs now >>> Like diapers or pants checks? But many kids beyond the age of toilet teaching (generally older than 4 years) who soil their underwear have a condition known as encopresis (en-kah-PREE-sis). As I have said in another post, I did not find the physical feeling of soiled pants particularly uncomfortable; the worst thing was the shame I felt and the scolding I received when my Mum looked in my pants and saw what I'd done. If you like the idea of blushing when others see what you've done, you don't have to cover it up. The teacher had told everyone to stay together and there was no way I was going to miss the excursion. And now you're included in that list. Thank you for this blog and others who have commented. Well, finally the GI tested her..she was extremely constipated. I made new friends and managed to move on from my previous experiences. Grrrrr! Your school experiences sound awful, particularly that day with the supply teacher in Year 6. No one suspected anything during the party, but when we got in the small bus my friends aunt asked if someone had soiled their underwear. No one seemed to realize and keeping it that way was my new challenge. So, they just soil their pants because they feel like doing it. It completely changed my image of him. And yet, despite all logic that would explain otherwise, I pooped my pants. So now I'm lying there, freaking dead, just praying that he can't see me. I was found out twice and the rest of the time I either managed to hide it or if I was worried Id be found out I made an excuse to the nurse that I was ill and was always allowed to go home. 3) My need to go has increased substantially. I sometimes wonder what would have happened if I had been discovered early, before it became a habit. I felt that way too. anyway. Hi, thanks for your comment. result of my soiling habit. why would a 12 year old poop his pants Another reason would have been that my birthday is in September, so I was 13 at the start of year 8 and this is when it concluded. sometimes the bump was quite small meaning there wasnt much poo in my pants and sometimes it was very big meaning i had done lots of poo. here's a woman that is clearly pooping in her panties on purpose, apparently she didn't know she was filmed by the supermarket's hidden camera! Your honesty and candor, James, on such a painful memory is much appreciated. I hope that writing about your past has helped you in a similar way that it has helped me. SHE'S FIVE. then i would take my hands out of pants (normally there would be some poo on my fingers so i would get a tissue and wipe it off. 0:56. and you wonder why she doesn't want to tell you when it happens? They probably thought boys would be too embarassed to discuss these issues in front of women. However, it might have just come down to the simple fact that I had reached the front steps to my house before succumbing to this temptation, and had I lived a little further away, I would have done the shameful deed. This basically means when a child feels things are getting too much for them to handle, they seek solace by trying to recreate their baby or toddler years when life was simpler. The historical past of marathoning is plagued by these fecal footnotes. of course she didn't come to you when it happened again. I can recall at home and school various occasions when I was encouraged to change myself, but these werent particularly successful as I didnt clean properly. I dont remember what I said to her, but it couldnt have been very convincing because she said something like. They claimed they didn't force anyone, but I knew one guy who was really upset that he had to attend, because he swore he only had one accident and it would never happen again. Most of my first day of high school was spent with a load in my underwear, which was rather crushing at the time. How none of us noticed or smelled it is beyond me but it happened. It's EXACTLY what you're describing. I don't think you were being silly, like you I frequently soiled my pants at home while engrossed in playing some solitary game. He basically told me that he knew I had pooped, and that I should just admit it and not try to lie. Hi Anonymous, Thats a feeling I can I understand.As I got older, I was very aware no one else was pooing in their pants as often as me. when u were discovered after having an accident was there a sense of relief because you found it uncomfortable to be in pooey pants and being discovered would mean u were to be changed? underwear he would sometimes just do the rest in his pants. I agree, habits can be very hard to break. then i would carry on playing untill i got another urge to poo. Paula Radcliffe at first of the 2005 London Marathon. Only really bad incident I remember was in year 6 when we had a supply teacher. Peppa Pig Play-Doh Toilet Training Accident Pees Her Pants and Poops. Not only was someone finally listening to me I wasnt the only one and made me feel amazing. CARL DE SOUZA/AFP through Getty Photographs. Hi again Anonymous, How did you find out about the support group, were you told to attend, or did you find out yourself? Then we put her and her 3 yr old sister in a bath and she pooped a small amount, knew about it and waited til I found it and then looked at me like I was crazy for getting pissed. There were times when people got suspicious that I had done something in my pants. The medication my mother gave me and washing my own underwear made that a lot easier. I was already in a crouching position when I felt it, but this time I Some days it would be worse than others but either way I would just stay like that till hometime, praying that no-one would say anything!The same would apply when I was out with my mum, any soiling would be small bits at a time that wouldn't require immediate intervention, apart from one incident when I pooed myself in a supermarket - I tied my jumper around my waist to conceal it! Going home to change usually meant a denial to go, so I virtually never did. High school was a very different story. That came during a holiday with a friend and his family. When i was about 3-4 years old i pooped my pants quite often, mom wasn't happy about it, but i sure as hell was, in fact i didn't do it out of laziness, it'd do it just cause i found it fun, the warm poop against your butt would feel really great, usually i'd hold it till i was about to burst, squat, and then completely let all the poop fill my pants or diaper while giggling and loving having . I Poop My Pants On Purpose bornkiller Administrator In your girlfriends snatch January 2013 edited January 2013 in Spurious Generalities The comments kinda explain it. Make her clean herself up complete with throwing the poop in the potty and washing out the undies. I was far too cornered with my personal hygiene even as a baby. Yes, this is sooooo normal. She's not an adult. I was still doing it when I started high school so rather than try to stop, I made a very conscious decision to hide my problem. couldnt hold it. "in a loud voice. Hi Jason, thanks for sharing your story. Don't assume it's a control issue. No, I would not poop my pants on purpose. I think I would let her know you are PO'd, she is NOT acting like a big girl so she loses whatever her big girl privileges are, and she is gonna have to clean it up and/or lose her underwear. say that a baby has filled his nappy, some parents refer to a child who has She made me come to the front of the class, pulled my trousers down and pulled the back of my waistband on my undies. Mar 3, 2016. by Jesse Donaldson. First take her to the pediatrician & have My son has sensory issues and had encoperisis. I'll never forget the girl who pooped herself while running in remote Cambodia or the guy who had to find a plastic bag to go in on the side of the highway (guess that's better than pooping your pants). Diaper Lover. One of them was during a Christmas party at a local park. As your parents and society at large expected you to use the toilet, you chose to go in your pants instead.The other theory I have heard of is the idea of comfort soiling. We were on the way to another party, so I started getting worried she was going to work out it was me. I imagine that was a difficult and embarrassing conversation. Curse yourself. I loved the long summer It wasnt until a teacher decided to make me her challenge that I finally began to change. I think kids with encopresis often have great imaginations maybe connected.I read a great book called ADD The Edison Gene. Everything was ok for the first couple of day until I realized I was very constipated and no matter how hard I tried nothing came out. Here are some reasons why some children soil their pants: Some kids may purposely poop in their pants because, all of a sudden, they don't feel like using a potty. Try not to pay too much attention to it - just clean it up and don't make a fuss about it. her seen/tested. Like me my friends were impatient, so taking too long meant catching up with them, wherever we were going. Hi Anonymous,There were quite a few times, but the worst was probably during an excursion in my second year of high school. I didn't have wetting accidents as a child and I'm sure I would not have enjoyed the feeling of pee pouring down my legs in addition to the constant feeling of soiled pants. In a hurry? When you say "she knew my person experience", do you mean that she also had soiling problems at some time? I think she was often too busy to clean me up and I agree with you there was an element of 'out of sight out of mind'. didnt withhold, as I still often did when I was away from home. Two were when we were stuck in traffic on the freeway due to some accident or road construction. Next try to keep in mind she's only 5, not 15 so it's most likely do to something other than an attitude issue/response. That just made me find way of hiding my problem and I became quite good at that. Sweet relief. I would always try to change quickly and hide my pooed undies - which would regularly be discovered and lead to huge humiliation. Only babies, old people, Michael Moore, Internet trolls, and Jersey Shore cast members doodoo in their drawers. One of mine did it because his Dad would get so bent out of shape about it. In marathoning, the continual bodily exertion is usually accountable. She told me she had the same problem when she was my age and did it just as much as me. so most of my poo accidents happened in my room which might seem silly as most children with encopresis would soil them selves out and about because they didnt want to use public toilets. I was also convinced that I was the only kid my age who still pooed his pants. Get started for FREE Continue. that was the type of thing which went through my head. you might be wondering why i did this but it was because i wanted to check if my pants already had some poo in them. soil and rock. I hadnt been constipated for quite a while and knew medication would have resolved my situation, but I didnt have the courage to tell anyone. favorite_border. About halfway through our holiday we went to an island and while we were there my friend and I decided to walk up the steps around a lighthouse. Seems to be working so far. Hi, thank you for sharing your story, and I'm sorry you had such a hard time with soiling as a child and teenager. You can have constipation mixed with diarrhea (other conditions have this as well as some moms have mentioned) so I wouldn't rule out a medical cause - just because they go regularly doesn't mean there can't be compacted stool. hey check my profile out and read all my posts. I crouched down and added to the waste in my It tended to happen a little bit at a time over the course of a few hours as with each wave of needing a poo I would be unable to fully hold it back. That was quite a while later and she questioned me why I hadnt bothers going to the toilet after and why it looked like I had done the entire load in my underwear. However, after I had been changed it was nice to be back in clean pants and to be able to put my latest accident behind me. She didn't discipline me as such but would certainly try and discourage me verbally. himself anyway, so it was a case of in for the penny, in for the pound. Maybe that was the way I was thinking that Later that night we spent hours driving around in the same bus looking and stopping at Christmas lights. She tried to explain it to my mother, but she quickly realized that was a waste of time. p.p.s. a low-fiber diet. This is a story about a gay teen couple on their first ever road trip. My kids never did stuff like that for attention - so I can't comment on that. I would assume that because I couldnt smell it, nobody else could. Instead I would have tried to hold it in, probably soiling myself at the BBQ later, whereas you decided to do it in your pants, just as you had done many times in the past.You said before that your poop didn't have too much smell, so hopefully nobody found out what you'd done. 1:09. Hi Jason, Yeah the support group was definitely a relief! It takes at least 3 weeks to get them back to normal, and if they're not getting enough fiber, it can act up. they would have seen a strange sight, an 8 year old boy crouching down and Doing my own washing meant it was much easier to keep my secret, but she sometimes made comments about the state of my underwear. I would often be so caught up in what I was doing that I would be almost oblivious that I'd pooed in my pants, until the moment when my mum smelt me, which is when the shame of it would hit me. I pooped in my pants frequently from age 5 all the way up to 14. p.s. Some guys even admitted to occasionally wearing diapers and pull ups to control their soiling.it felt good to know I wasn't the only one with this problem. toilet because shortly afterwards I felt that I had to go again. Get her to the doctor. I did try to explain it to my parents but nothing I said seemed to change their minds. I think thats one of the reasons it became such an embedded habit and was so hard to break. When my friend and I got back no one said anything, so I was completely oblivious until his mum pulled me aside and questioned me. She almost full on crapped in her underwear and then sat in it for 3 hrs. When I was a child, I could never explain why I had pooed in my underwear instead of using the toilet. It was a sunny and clear morning in the Indian Himalayan foothills. My gym teacher found them and boy was he mad! That fear soon disappeared after we got there, when no one suspected anything, and his aunt went home. Jul 5, 2016. Hi anonymous,have you worked out why you did it for so long?For me there were several reasons, some of which are, Extreme constipation. Fear of using the toilets at school, or virtually anywhere else except home. Being easily distracted. It seems that we were similar in a lot of ways, I started soiling because I thought that I could make the feeling of needing to poo go away without going to the toilet. leaving my bottom and entering my underwear. Almost 3 Year Old and Still Refusing to Poop in the Toilet!! This is also a little weird but sometimes when kids get praised for something they act out in stupid ways to test if u really love them..with out them doing well in a report cardkind of thing.I really don't know it doesn't sound like a huge medical.prob in your case but more of a testing behavior thing.those really do crop up for no reason. ^ Not me. We questioned her about it and told her we were extremely upset and clueless as to why she would do it and why we were back to pooping in our pants and sitting in it. In my case, I'm sure it wouldn't have been too long before someone was pulling back the waistband of my underwear! 4. Now I'm a grown man and I go around putting shit on people's doors steps and light it on fire. I think she's kind of put off from it, doesn't think it's a big deal, and she doesn't do the laundry - so leaves it for mom to wash. He also had accidents well into elementary school but they happened when he was super excited or scared, and he was mortified - totally different thing. Its associated to the truth that in periods of bodily stress, the physique shunts blood away from organs that arent essentially important at that second, Michael Dobson, D.O., a colon and rectal surgeon with Novant Well being in Charlotte, North Carolina, tells Psychological Floss. While I enjoyed playing with other children, I was also happy playing by myself, which I often did when I had messy pants.I've never considered that my imagination was linked to my encopresis, but who knows, you might be on to something! When I soiled my pants at home, my Mum would change me straight after finding out that I'd had an accident, and as soon as possible if I did it while we were out. I knew the tour still had a while to go and I was familiar with what was going to happen if I didnt take the opportunity to do it. If your kid is anything like any of mine, 80% odd this will work. As we sat on the grass waiting for the bus, I realized I had forgotten to go to the toilet and my underwear were already a little dirty. Instead I decided to push the extremely big hard logs into my underwear. Test made by: natalia1998. I had gone there with a friend and his extended family. I kept saying, no, she's not constipated. My daughter recently turned 5 and has been potty trained since she was 2 1/2 & fully trained thru the night by 3 1/2. But it turned out to be a really good group that taught us coping techniques and strategies to keep our underwear and pants clean. 4) Try massaging around your stomach 10 times for about 5 seconds each. This has been proven to stimulate the need to go #2. I too could be happy playing alone with nothing. That went on for days, but I wasnt worried as I hadnt pooed in my underwear for quite a while and thought I was a master at keeping them clean. uQuiz.com is a free online quiz making tool. Good luck! That meant they would start to come out by themselves and it also didnt hurt. I woke up promptly at six am to my host mother knocking . Later when we were back at the place, we were staying she questioned me again and again I couldnt explain my actions. !" shouted her mom. This book talks about instead of it being a disorder it's a smart gene. Road Trip (BOYXBOY) by FlynnLandvik. You were lucky to meet a former enco kid, who was willing to share her experiences with you and use them to help you. And I certainly got used to wearing messy underwear for long periods without it feeling particularly uncomfortable, and carried on acting normally with a load in my pants. It's a big problem for you and for him when he's at school. They start learning something else and potty training sort of goes out the window for a short while. I can remember being given permission to wet in my pants on several occasions. This was the 1970 and 80s and very few people had heard of encopresis. Haven't had this happen exactly, but I do have kids with lactose intolerance who've had a few leaks in their underpants from diarrhea type stools. Even if I had wanted The medical side of it was never discussed or explored by my family as it was always just assumed I was being naughty or lazy - to the point where I actually begin to wonder this myself One other thing I recall is that when Id done it it would smell for a few seconds and then the smell would disappear. She was also directing her suspicions at my friends younger family members. All I had to do was explain myself better and she would have probably got me some medication. We developed a sense of humor about our problem. Hi jason. 1:28. - i.e. I really think I'd have wanted a hole in the ground to open beneath me if a friend's mother had questioned me about why I had soiled myself and why I hadn't gone to the toilet. 1. mess. We almost had the same thing with my youngest but I was able to reel Dad in before it got too bad. I'm sorry to hear that. Eliminate the medical issue first. Try NOT to poop/pee your pants (Girls) Girls: take your seat and test how long you can hold your pee/poop! In fact, I hardly ever used the toilets at school, even to pee. Help her develop. I really wanted to help him, but Ive been too embarrassed to tell him I had (have) the same issue My sister (his Mum) isnt handling it particularly well. was a good job that I did not also need a wee that afternoon or I probably Hi Anonymous,Cleaning up was my responsibility and that also applied to washing my underwear. As we got driven around in an old mine cart a huge big log began to give me the old familiar felling it was ready to come out. Sure, babies and old people do it all the time. To which she had no answer and really didnt care what we were saying. Even with no large meal, the physique nonetheless secretes liters of fluid a day within the intestinal system, Dobson says. what sort of answer would you have actually accepted from her? pooping poop wetting diaper peeing diapers abdl tbdl pee diaperpunishment messing diapered nappies wet messy bedwetting diaperlover mess teenbaby dl. I got very good at keeping it secret and like you did it until my late teens. The problem with that was those opportunities almost always seemed to be during class or while I was out doing something on the weekend. Kids go through all Has anyone pooped or peed their pants on purpose, and is it okay to do it? did not think of the consequences of my actions. Otherwise, I would use the commodore or the floor. That weight of the problem could be shaping the way you're handling the training. As a boy, James Parkin often pooed himself until he was 11. 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